You’ve got the toy. You’ve had the fun. But what happens after the glow?
Caring for your toys isn’t exactly the sexiest part of your routine — but it might be the most important. Because when your toys are clean, smooth, and stored right, every experience feels better (and lasts longer).
Whether you’re a curious first-timer or a seasoned collector, this guide is your go-to for keeping your pleasure essentials in peak condition — no awkward Googling required.
Step 1: Clean Before and After Every Use
Why it matters:
Your toy touches intimate places. Enough said. Keeping it clean reduces bacteria, irritation, and keeps things body-safe.
Here’s the actually easy way to clean:
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Use a gentle, antibacterial toy cleaner – not hand soap, and definitely not body wash.
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Rinse with warm water (never boiling or freezing).
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Pat dry with a clean towel or let it air dry.
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Don’t store it wet — ever.
Try this:
Toy Cleaning Spray
Gentle, effective, and specifically made for intimate toys.
Step 2: Use the Right Lube (Yes, It Matters)
Water-based lube is your toy’s best friend.
Why? Because it’s safe with all toy materials (especially silicone), easy to clean off, and won’t degrade the toy’s surface.
Silicone lubes can break down silicone toys, and oil-based lubes? Forget it — they’re messy, not condom-safe, and tough on your sheets.
Top Pick:
Sliquid Natural Intimate Lubricant (H2O)
Vegan, glycerin-free, and silky-smooth. Great for solo or partnered play.
Step 3: Store It Like You Actually Care
If you’re tossing your toys into a random drawer with loose hair ties and bobby pins, it’s time to level up.
Proper storage = longer life + safer use.
Do this:
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Store toys in individual cloth pouches or hard cases
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Keep away from sunlight, humidity, and heat
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Never let two toys touch — especially silicone or jelly-based
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Toy Storage & Accessories →
Step 4: Refresh Regularly (Every 6–12 Months)
Even the best lube or cleaner won’t last forever.
Keep your pleasure products — and your routine — fresh by setting reminders to:
- Replace your lube
- Re-up on toy cleaner
- Swap out batteries or charging cables
- Do a full clean + reset of your toy drawer
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Why Toy Care Isn’t Optional
We say it all the time: pleasure is self-care. And so is caring for your pleasure tools.
It’s not just about hygiene — it’s about keeping every experience smooth, safe, and satisfying.
Regular care means:
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Longer-lasting toys
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Better sensations
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No awkward “wait, when’s the last time I cleaned this?” moments
Build Your Toy Care Routine at French Postcard
We’ve curated all the essentials you need to keep things clean, smooth, and stress-free:
Must-Haves:
Final Word:
Your toys give you a lot. Give them a little love back.
It takes just a few minutes to clean and care for your essentials — and trust us, it’s worth it every single time
Frequently Asked Questions About Toy Care
Q: Can I clean my sex toy with soap and water?
A: Not all soaps are toy-safe! Use a gentle, antibacterial toy cleaner to avoid irritation and protect your toy’s material. Rinse with warm water and dry completely before storing.
Q: What’s the safest lubricant to use with sex toys?
A: Water-based lubes are your go-to! They’re safe for all materials, easy to clean, and won’t damage your toys. Avoid silicone or oil-based lubes unless the toy specifically allows it.
Q: How often should I clean my toys?
A: Before and after every use. This helps keep things hygienic and body-safe, every single time.
Q: How should I store my intimacy toys?
A: Keep toys in individual pouches or storage cases, away from heat and humidity. Never let toys touch each other — especially silicone or jelly-based ones.
Q: Do sex toys expire or need replacing?
A: While toys don’t have a hard expiry date, lubricants, batteries, and cleaners do. Refresh your toy care kit every 6–12 months and replace anything worn or expired.
Q: What do I need for a complete toy care routine?
A: Just 3 things:, 1. A quality toy cleaner, 2. A water-based lube, 3. Proper storage (pouches, cases, etc.), And a reminder to refresh them regularly.